Saturday, December 11, 2010
Love or Infatuation
Infatuation, is instant desire-one set of glands calling to another.
love, is friendship that has caught fire, it takes root and grows one day at a time.
Infatuation, is marked by a feeling of insecurity, you are excited and eager but not genuinely happy there are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine to closely.
Love, is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. it is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you- to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence and even when they are away. Miles do not separate you, you want them near, but near or far, you now he or she is yours and can wait.
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement, whenever you are in one another's company you are hoping it will end in intimacy.
Love, is the maturation of friendship, you must be friends before you can become lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they are away you wonder if they are cheating, sometimes you check.
Love means trust, you are calm, secure and unthreatened, he feels your trust and it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later.
Love, lifts you up, it makes you look up, it makes you think up, it makes you a better person than you were before!